Think before you speak

Saturday I got my feelings hurt from a friend who told me I was a bad influence to the young Dandie Girls because I got "knocked up" at 17 and got decided to keep the baby and gave up my college career.  It really hurt and made me upset and then mad.  The reason I am posting this is to say something.  We need to think before we speak.  What I did when I was 17 was what I felt was right and still do.  I am very happily married and love my children and wouldn't change that for the world.  What you might think is a bad decision might be the right decision for that person.  Don't judge someone just because you don't agree with their decisions.  Ok that is all I have vented.

Life

Here lately life has been busy.  The kids are wrapping up with school work is busy Tommy had a dentist appointment and had 2 teeth pulled.  We added 2 chihauauas to the family.  I just got through bathing all 4 dogs and the cat so Im pooped.  I have a lot of stuff weighing on my mind and hard choices to make so I have been a little preoccupied.  I keep praying and I know the answer is right in front of me but either answer I choose could be right or wrong in its own way and have its on consequences.  Well I better get off here and finish my house work.  Hope everybody has a great day

Mothers Day

I am laying here on my Mothers Day thinking about alot.  Tommys momma is back in the hospital and we are hoping that she gets out today but we are not sure yet.  I am thinking about my kids and how I am so thankful to have them because if it weren't for them I wouldn't get to celebrate Mothers Day.  My wonderful hubby fixed breakfast for me this morning and is fixing lunch for us too.  He is so good to me.  The kids are helping but you know how that goes sometimes.  And I am thinking about my mom.  How lucky I am to have her.  We can't choose who our parents are but I wouldn't choose a better mom.  My mom does her best to take care of everybody around her.  And I don't just mean family.  Well I guess I do because to her she treats everybody like family.  My mother in law too.  She has taken me in as a daughter.  I am so lucky because I have all these wonderful women in my life and a wonderful family.