Think before you speak

Saturday I got my feelings hurt from a friend who told me I was a bad influence to the young Dandie Girls because I got "knocked up" at 17 and got decided to keep the baby and gave up my college career.  It really hurt and made me upset and then mad.  The reason I am posting this is to say something.  We need to think before we speak.  What I did when I was 17 was what I felt was right and still do.  I am very happily married and love my children and wouldn't change that for the world.  What you might think is a bad decision might be the right decision for that person.  Don't judge someone just because you don't agree with their decisions.  Ok that is all I have vented.